I agree 100% with all of that. I think it's especially important to call people on their bad behavior when they're trying to do it anonymously, otherwise all their doing is being rewarded for doing something wrong.

Of course, I'm also a big believer that you don't know the strength of a friendship until you have your first disagreement. We can't all have the same opinion all the time.

There are times when I wish that people could be voted out of fandom.